Do men also make fun of others by calling them vulgar names and stereotyping them? No. Real men don't do those, only those who have no consideration for anyone besides themselves.
You see, real men are kind. They are compassionate, loyal, and trustworthy. That is what defines a real man. Do they get drunk or lay with a different woman each night? No. They follow a guideline that describes who they are and what they want to be. So what makes you a man? Age? No. Seniority? No. You are a real man when you know what it feels like to be in their shoes. You understand what others go through and you respect them. Real men aren't some bulky tough guys, real men are those who cry with a friend; they comfort their wife/girl friend when needed. They know when to keep their mouth shut and when to back off. Yet they protect what they know and love deeply.
A real man is a man that will sacrifice himself for others with no thought for his own life. He will stand for what he believes is right and just, though will not back down.
Those are the qualities of a real man. So are any of us real men? Possibly, although we could all use some growing up. When we strive with all our strength to be the best, that is when we know that we are one step closer to being a real man.
-Gandolf
